Have you tried flushing the coolant system? These car do tend to run high up on the gauge. Proper operating temp is around 195°.
The fan will only come on when the fan switch tells it to. Often times when parking, the coolant temp will rise just enough to switch on the fan, so if you have the key in the RUN position the fan will turn on.
A. The stock cooling system is more than adequate. Make sure everything you have is in good operating condition before considering other options.
B. Spark plug temperature / heat range has nothing to do with engine temperature
C. There are but I don't recommend them. The 180 will not provide any heat in the winter, and the engine does not benefit from running any cooler.
Also, Welcome to TeamCapri! Hope this info helps. Hopefully you can take the trip down the NorthEast Meet this september
-Rocket